I took this quiz in facebook called the Enneagram Personality Test. As usual, sakto na naman yung results. Alam mo yun? Yung funny feeling whenever sumasakto yung quiz results. Parang napapasabi ka na, "Yeah... ganyan nga ako!" Haha.
Type 9 - The Peacemaker
Basic Desire: to find union and peace
Basic Fear: of separation
World View: My efforts won't matter to the world. It's best to keep the peace.
Childhood Origin: Connected to parental-figures.
Nines are easy going and reassuring. They are agreeable, but can also tend to become too withdrawn if it means avoiding conflict. They strive for internal and external peace more than any other type, and they fear loss and separation. They can become out of touch, and retreat into their own minds and fantasies. At their worst, nines cannot face reality at all and become completely unresponsive. At their best, nines connect with themselves and others. They become dynamic, serene, and present.
Receptive, good-natured, and supportive. They seek union with others and the world around them.
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How to Get Along with Me
* If you want me to do something, how you ask is important. I especially don't like expectations or pressure.
* I like to listen and to be of service, but don't take advatage of this.
* Listen until I finish speaking, even though I meander a bit.
* Give me time to finish things and make decisions. It's OK to nudge me gently and nonjudgmentally.
* Ask me questions to help me get clear.
* Tell me when you like how I look. I'm not averse to flattery.
* Hug me, show physical affection. It opens me up to my feelings.
* I like a good discussion but not a confrontation.
* Let me know you like what I've done or said.
* Laugh with me and share in my enjoyment of life.
What I Like About Being a Nine
* being nonjudgmental and accepting
* caring for and being concerned about others
* being able to relax and have a good time
* knowing that most people enjoy my company; I'm easy to be around
* my ability to see many different sides of an issue and to be a good mediator and facilitator
* my heightened awareness of sensations, aesthetics, and the here and now
* being able to go with the flow and feel one with the universe
What's Hard About Being a Nine
* being judged and misunderstood for being placid and/or indecisive
* being critical of myself for lacking initiative and discipline
* being too sensitive to criticism; taking every raised eyebrow and twitch of the mouth personally
* being confused about what I really want
* caring too much about what others will think of me * not being listened to or taken seriously
COPYRIGHT:
Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele The Enneagram Made Easy Discover the 9 Types of People HarperSanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages 9types.com
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